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Every group trip has three arguments.
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where to stay

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where to eat

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How it works

Tell us who & what

How many people, what vibe, what budget. Takes 30 seconds.

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We score and rank your options — destinations, stays, or restaurants.

Share & decide

Send the link to the group. Vote, compare, book.

Frequently argued questions

Can't I just use Google Forms?

You could. It's anonymous, it's free, and nobody will make fun of anyone. Which is exactly the problem. We don't check IDs either — put your name in as Chicago Mom or Chonkasaurus or whatever. We're not ICE.

Can't I just do this in ChatGPT / Claude?

You could. But you won't. You'll start, get a wall of text, realize you need to re-prompt 4 times, copy it into a Google Doc nobody reads, and end up back in the group chat arguing. We did the prompting for you. You're welcome.

Is this really free?

The planning tools are free. We make money when you book through our links — flights, hotels, restaurants. If you find a spot on your own, great. We still helped you decide.

What if someone in the group is being difficult?

The vibe sliders will expose them. When 5 people want party and 1 person wants chill, the data speaks. Screenshot the dashboard and send it to the chat. We'll wait.

How is this different from just googling it?

Google doesn't know that 6 of you fly from Chicago, 2 from Boston, nobody has a passport, and your budget is $1,200. We do. That's the whole point.

Do I need to download an app?

No. It's a link. Works in your browser. Your aunt can use it. Your aunt's aunt can use it.

What about dinner tonight?

That's /eat. Tell us the vibe, we'll find the spot. Walk-ups and reservations. Works for couples, groups, families. Even the picky one.

My group is too big / too small for this.

If there are 2 of you, flip a coin. If there are 20 of you, godspeed — this tool was literally built for your pain.

The full plan

Real restaurants. Real tips. Not a template.

Miami· 4 days · 8 people

Sun, salt water, and zero responsibilities — 8 friends, 3 nights, one legendary Miami weekend.

1Touchdown & Poolside Reset

Morning$70/person (nightly room split)

Arrivals & Check-In at The Confidante Miami Beach

Stagger your arrivals from CVG, ORD, and LAX and rally at The Confidante in Mid-Beach — a Hyatt Unbound Collection hotel with two massive pools and direct beach access. Mid-Beach gives you South Beach energy without the Spring Break chaos.

Tip: Book directly through Hyatt and request building 2 — it's closer to the main pool and has better ocean views.

Afternoon$35/person

Pool Day at The Confidante + Beach Walk

Claim cabana-adjacent loungers at the main pool — the one with the pink-and-white retro vibe. Order frozen drinks from the pool bar and ease into vacation mode. Around 3 PM, walk the boardwalk south toward 31st Street for a quick ocean dip.

Tip: The pool bar makes a surprisingly great frozen paloma that's not on the main menu — just ask for it.

Evening$25/person

Sunset Drinks at The Broken Shaker

Walk next door to The Broken Shaker, one of the most celebrated cocktail bars in America tucked inside a tropical garden courtyard. The craft cocktails rotate seasonally and the vibe is relaxed-cool without being pretentious.

Tip: Go between 5:30-6:30 PM to snag the big communal table in the garden before the late-night crowd rolls in.

Dinner

Lido Bayside Grill at The Standard Spa

Mediterranean-Coastal · $$-$$$

Waterfront on Biscayne Bay, twinkling string lights, lush tropical landscaping — feels like a private island dinner party.

Tip: Request the bayside terrace table for 8. Order the whole branzino and the burrata to share family-style.

2Beach Club Blitz & Ocean Drive After Dark

3Crandon Park Escape & Brickell Nightcap

4Golden Hour & Goodbye

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